Overcome Fear

What is fear, really? “An unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain, or harm.” It’s just an emotion, sometimes strong, sometimes not. Why are we so affected by it? Why do we let it rule our lives and tell us what to do and what not to do?

Fear can be very useful when we need to flee from danger. However, more often it paralyses us when what we really need is to act.

I have recently watched a movie called “Arrival”. It’s about the power of communication and the value of human contact and unity. What struck me the most is the behavior of a woman-scientist.  She was extremely scared, it was obvious, but it didn’t stop her from stepping forward and going into the unknown. As a result of her conquered fear she was able to save humanity from destruction.

In our life and business we face much simpler tasks and dangers. Nevertheless, it doesn’t mean that our fears have no power to cause destruction. The scale is smaller, of course, but the importance and the aftermath for each of us is huge sometimes.

Are you scared of a new job or a new position? Are you afraid to make that step and finally start a business? Are you horrified that she might say “no” if you ask her out? Overcome your fear and make that next step. Ask for a raise. Change the job. Start a company. Propose. Go on a journey. Take a course. Invest. Live. You’re worth it!

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Challenges Can Be Fun!

Don’t you just love  challenges? Life would be so boring without having to overcome obstacles and coming up with creative ways of solving problems. Think about your favorite movies and books. Every hero in a great story has to go through hardships and endure all kinds of difficulties to finally achieve the ultimate goal of their life.

Did you know that it costs about $60,000 to climb Mount Everest? It’s deadly dangerous too. And still there are lots of people every year that want to challenge themselves to that. Why? I think it’s in our nature to always strive for the heights, to have a constant desire for growth. And there is usually no growth without tests and trials.

Don’t be afraid of challenges. Embrace them. Understand them. Overcome them. Use them for your growth and future success. They are for sure our blessings in disguise!